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Domestic violence against men - the upsettingfact.
Domestic violence against men is not ever all the timeeasy to detect, but it can be a serious threat to the abused person. How do you identify if either you or someone you know is being abused in such as way as to be considered a victim of "domestic violence?" And where can you or they go to get advice in complete confidence?
Beleive it or not, the fact is that women are not the only sufferers of domestic violence.
What are the warning signs of domestic violence against men?
Domestic violence is also widely known as domestic abuse, hitting or other spouse or partner violence. It happens frequently between people in an close relationship. Domestic violence against men can take on many various forms, such as psychological, emotional, physical, sexual abuse and invariably the threats of mistreatment. Domestic violence happens without respect to sexual orientation. In fact, it happens in both in heterosexual and homosexual relationships.
Domestic violence against men is often difficult to detect. But all too often here is what happens: soon in the new and usually intimate relationship, one person seems very attentive, surprisingly generous and quite overly protective. Soon and in hindsight s/he turns out to be terribly inhibiting and usually terrifying. In the beginning with that person, the physical or mental abuse might appear as isolated incidents. And that's when the cycle of apologies and promises to not to do that abusive thing to you ever again.
In a lot of domestic relationships, domestic violence against males might consist of both persons or partners play-slapping and/or pushing each other around when one or the other gets upset. Typically neither person sees himself or herself as being mistreated or manipulated. Regardless, the adverse affects of those types of disguised violence, however, it will ruin a marriage and leaving both persons with deep, long-lasting emotional scarring and physical injury.
Domestic violence against men happens both in private and even in public. Here are 17+ warning signs that you might be the victim of abuse:
1. Constant, belittling name calling 2. Repeatedly saying hurtful insults or personal put downs 3. Physically prevents you from going out to work or school 4. Slowly and eventually stops or cuts you off from seeing and talking to loved ones, friends, neighbors and especially other people 5. Tries to restrain how you spend your money 6. Tries to control where you go and even what clothing you decide to wear 7. Is or acts jealous and angrily so 8. Is overly possessive 9. Frequently accuses you of cheating 10. Becomes an angry, beligerent drunk or gets crazy when high on drugs 11. Has a pistol or other dangerous weapons and uses them to threaten you with violence 12. Has a history of and may still abuse pets or small animals 13. Has hurt you and/or your children or elderly parent(s) 14. Has hit, punched, kicked, choked or otherwise attacked you while you were sleeping, intoxicated or unable to defend yourself 15. Has raped or forced you to have sex or engage in sex acts against your will (Never takes NO as a NO.) 16. Argues that you are to blame for his or her violent actions or declares you that you therefore well deserved the abuse 17. Outwardly to you and especially to others portrays the violence as a joke or just consensual rough sex that it all is no big deal.
To sum up, if either you or someone you know has experienced any of the above signs of domestic abuse, or been the victim of domestic violence, then please stop right now and call your local police department and report them. There are laws prohibiting physical voilence and state and local resources to help and protect male and female victims of domestic violence.
Source: http://www.plugcomputer.org/plugwiki/index.php/User%3AIrvinGoebel509
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